Life is a learning experience!
I was listening to a speaker about forgiveness, healing and living and wanted to share some of the insights gained with you.
Some of our greatest set-backs, hurts and heartbreaks are the best of our learning experiences. The best thing we can do is to forgive and allow our lives to move on quicker. The faster we forgive the faster we are able to make it out of the valley to a place where we can see clearly. Forgiveness is about a sense of personal honor and integrity to ourselves and allows us to improve our journey.
The most important point is the five steps of healing according to speaker and author Caroline Myss is as follows.
1. Force yourself to forgive, holding to hurts, damages you more than the other person
2. Redefine healing for yourself, it is not perfection, but a day to day task and gradual transformation
3. Stop asking why things happen, doing so causes your spirit to not move on
4. Chart a new course for your future
5. Have people witness your wound three times, and then let it go
When you begin to step outside of yourself and look at your life, you begin to be able to view your life in a more profound way. The challenges do not seem to be as overwhelming and we are able to move on and live our lives.
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